A Deep Thought on Love **linked from a website**

身边在恋爱中的朋友
都曾经告诉过我
爱的感觉是很奇妙的
Friends beside me who were in love
had once told me
love is a wonderful feeling



爱情一开始是很甜蜜
总是会觉得
多一个人的陪伴
多一个人帮你分担
自己不会再孤单
因为另一半会想着，恋着你
无论觉得自己做什么事情
只要两个人能在一起
都是最好的
Love is sweet at start
One will feel that
there is another partner accompanying you
there is another partner helping and sharing with you
You won’t feel lonely
Your partner will consider about you, love you
No matter what it is done
As long as both can be together
it is the best



随着时间的流逝
慢慢的彼此的认识愈深
就会开始发现对方的缺点
问题就会一个接着一个地发生
其中一方就会
烦，累，甚至想逃避
With the time running
The understanding became nearer
It will cause both parties to find each other’s shortcomings
Problems occur one after another
One party will be
bored, tired or even try to evade



也有人曾经告诉过我
爱情就像在捡石头
总是想捡到一个适合自己
但是你又如何知道
什么时候才会捡到呢？
那时候恋爱中的人就会想
我适合对方吗
对方也适合我吗？
Some people have told me
Love is just like a rock in the seizure
Feeling to pick the suitable one
Would you get to know
Would you get to realize the suitable one
At that time
People who were in love
will be thinking
am I suitable for the other party
is the other party suitable for me



其实也有人把
爱情比喻成像石子一样
刚捡到的时候
是会不是那么的满意
但是
记住人是有弹性的
很多事情是可以改变
只要是有恒心，有勇气
与其到处去捡未知的石头
还不如让自己
把已经拥有的石头磨亮
In fact
love is liken as a stone
When it is picked
It is not so easy to satisfied
People are always flexible
Many things can be changed
As long as
There is the perseverance and courage
Instead of picking an unknown stone form anywhere
Why not let yourself
pick one which is already glittering



有人会认为
这就是感情淡化了
所以人才会
变得懒惰
Some people may think that
The feeling which fades
People will
become lazy



这是错误的想法
只要人先被惰性征服
这样感情才会变淡
This is a wrong concept
As long as people to be inert conquest
Such feeling will be sneered out

越来越多人
只想要谈一辈子的恋爱
却迟迟不肯走入婚姻
婚姻真的会让人变得懒惰吗？
More and more people
wish for eternal love
but why do they refused to enter marriage
will marriage really make people lazy



如果每个人都
懒得讲话
懒得倾听
懒得制造惊喜
懒得温柔体贴
那么情人之间
怎么会不渐行渐远渐无声呢？
If everyone is
lazy in speech
lazy in listening
lazy in creating surprises
Lazy in giving gentle and considerate
between lovers
how will it not gradually be apart
and
how will it not gradually be silence



所以专家说
有活力的爱情
是需要适度殷勤灌溉
恋爱时更不能懒惰
你体会得到了吗
恨，只是在我们的一念之间
爱，不仅要懂得宽容
很多事情都是因为
自己心境里的转变
Experts once said
A vibrant love
needed appropriate attention
is also needed for irrigation
Love cannot be lazy
Do you feel it?
Hatred, only appears once
Love, needed tolerance
Feelings changes because of
The changes in our own state of mind



当有个人爱上你时
你会觉得他不错
可是
这并不代表他是你最佳的选择
当你被人问回
你怎样才算爱一个人
自己会无法回答
因为自己心里也没有答案
When a person falls in love with you
You will think that he or she will be good
but
This doesn’t mean that he is your best option
When you were asked by other people
How do you love a person
It is hard to answer
Because in our hearts we don’t have the answer

人总是以为
自己会找到一个深爱自己的人
可是后来
自己会猛然回首
还发觉自己曾经是那么天真
如果从来没有开始
你在呢么知道什么叫恋爱
People always think that
They will find a person who really loves themselves
But later
When he or she thinks back
The will find themselves being so naïve
If it never started before
Do you know the feeling of love and being loved



其实
爱的感觉是
要一起经历许多事情之后才会发现
或许每个人都希望
能够找到自己心中
百分之百的伴侣
Actually
The feeling of love
should experience lots of events together and finally realize it
Perhaps everyone hope
To find the 100% prince charming in their heart



但是
有没有想过
身边早已有人默默为你付出
只是自己没有发觉
所以
仔细看看身边的人
因为那个人已经等你很久了
But
those who never thought about
there is the possibilities that
someone who have quietly sacrifice for you
Therefore,
take a closer look at the people beside you
Because that person has been waiting for you for a long time



当爱上一个人的时候
爱到八分刚刚好
期待和希望只有七分
剩下三分来爱自己
继续恋爱
对方会有沉重的压力
彼此喘不过气来
丧失了爱情的乐趣
When a person fall in love
love till eight points
but seven points of hope and expectation
the remaining three points to love yourself
Continue to love
will be a heavy pressure on both parties
Each other will lack of “respiration”
Also lose the fun of love



请记住
喝酒不要超过六分醉
吃饭不要超过七分饱
爱一个人不要超过八分
爱情观念不一样
对的叫开导
说错就变误导
Remember
don’t drink till six points drunk
don’t eat till seven points full
love a person should not be exceeding eight points
love’s concept is different
right things should be a guidance
Wrong things will be misleading



如果你在为爱情迷惘
请记的
这句启示
“爱一个人，要了解，也要开解”
If your love is loss
Please remember
This sentence of inspiration
“Love a person, should understand, should be guided”



道歉也要道谢
认错也要改错
体贴也要体谅
接受不是忍受
宽容不是纵容
支持不是支配
慰问不是质问
倾诉不是控诉
难忘不是遗忘
Be thankful when apologizing
Be able to change when admitting mistakes
Be understanding when consideration
Acceptance is not endure
Tolerance is not condoned
Support is not disposable
Sympathy is not questionable
Being charged is not complaints
unforgettable memories is not forgotten



彼此的交流不是凡事交代
是为对方默默祈求
而不是向对方诸多要求
可以浪漫但不要浪费
可以随时牵手但不要分手
Mutual exchange in both parties can’t explain anything
The other thing is to pray silently
And not expecting lots of requirements in each other’s relationship
It can be romantic but not wasting
we can have the touch when is not breaking up

***** Original text from once’s personal blog *****
***** English translated text from Google translating tool *****

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